♥ Thursday, May 8, 2008
Fakeness or .....??The Peri-Peri Girls club-hopped last Saturday and ended up in Movida expectedly. Surprisingly it was not that packed that night but of course we bumped into people we know there. I'm sure all of us had bumped into friends, acquaintances and got greeted by 'Hey, how are you? I miss you bla bla bla'. I'm fine if that's from an old friend who does not have your number or have not met you for a long time. Well, even if they say that to humour us - it kindda make sense. If that were to come for an acquaintance would also be fine since acquaintance is someone you rarely meet. However, what if that line comes from someone who you had been in contact and hanging out with for the past few months and the only reason you guys stopped hanging out was because of certain 'unforeseen circumstances' amongst certain parties in the clan and the 'feud' has got nothing to do with you?Ok, let me get straight to the point. Someone told the girls that he missed them so much and how come there wasn't even any email exchanges like it used to be bla bla bla...Thing is, he has all of their numbers so why couldn't he make the first move since he claimed (read: exaggerates) he missed those days a lot. The girls are seriously just a phonecall/sms/email away. He can't have too fat a thumb to have difficulties to dial the numbers or type the letters on the keyboards can he?A friend sms-ed me this morning, just to ask why have I not been online lately and just a few minutes ago, another friend sms-ed cause I crossed his mind. Those are simple but yet a thoughtful gesture which spell out s.i.n.c.e.r.i.t.y.
Another scenario was I got an sms from an unsaved number right after I stepped out of the club. It read 'the last song was dedicated to you'. I read, showed it to the girls and we all went 'whatever'. Took the cab and the moment TB was dropped off I got a call from that same number. Let me just shorten the story - I rejected the call and asked the caller what did he want? Guess what?! The caller actually denied calling me! Hah! How egoistic can a person be? For goodness sake, the number was on my 'Received Calls'! That's not all. While typing a message asking that ass to check his 'Dialled' list, I got a call from that same number again! Don't tell me it's an accidental dial again?! Well, it wasn't this time round and apparently the caller who happens to be one of the jerks in my life called the 2nd time just to hear my voice and wanted to say that I looked happy dancing to 'No One'! Duh!! It was my favourite song! You expect me to cry while dancing to that? Oh please! Get a better line!I can't help but feel that those words were said to start a conversation - out of a guilty conscious perhaps? As mentioned, the girls were just 'fingers-moving' away and oh! did I mention he sent his regards to me via TB when I was just an arm's length away? Isn't that soooooo primary school days where you meet boys who does not have balls (read: cowards) to come up to you? Isn't that also an act of an egoistic jerk who simply loses his guts in a drunken stupor? For this case I think it's more of the latter.My advice is - don't get drunk when you can't control your emotions while intoxicated cause you'll feel so stupid the next day after knowing you had let your ego away...
That must have been so ego bruising haven't it? Ouch!
Things happen for a reason
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