When we feel neglected, we complain to the party that neglect us. Be it our parents, siblings, Bf etc etc. We complain and complain and complain and stop when we realised our complaints have fallen on deaf ears.

We then whine to our friends about how we feel neglected and of course when it comes to friends - true friends that is your whines will never ever fall on deaf ears. After awhile, the paranoid us feel that we are bothering those listening ears too much. Next thing we'd do is to just keep everything to ourselves till we find a substitution which some would call distraction.

In situations like this, the grass always seem greener at most times. Obviously we'd concentrate more on that greener grass where everything feels so much fresher. The distraction becomes more and more beautiful each day that it makes us forget the feeling of being neglected. The feeling of being wanted simply brings back the smile to our faces. We get aroused with the slightest things. Whether or not we succumb to our temptations is a different story altogether.

We then become the person that neglects the people around us subconsciously. Suddenly the table is being turned around. They complain. We ignore. We ignore not because we're ignorant but because we feel that we are still capable of getting better treatment. We deserve better. The complaints go on and on. They cry. They beg. They seem remorseful basically and got back their spontaneity suddenly. Our heart softens and like magic everything goes back to normal.

That is if we don't succumb to our temptations.

What happens if we do?

The cries, beggings, remorsefullness and regain of spontaneity are all wasted! Who to blame? Not us but yourself because you refused to listen to us right from the beginning. You chose to ignore and took it way too lightly when we say 'We are feeling neglected!'

Don't blame us for succumbing to our temptations when you are not giving us our needs and wants - no matter how trivial they can be!!!

We are humans. We do things that make us happy. We move on when we don't see a need of hanging on - that is indeed the right thing to do...

Things happen for a reason
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